Primarily submissive but it's not something I need with every partner and it has to be mutually beneficial as opposed to the one sided gentlemen that Ive encountered time amp again Im very busy and dont always have a lot of play time but willing to be a third for a couple looking to show the way. Lets be friends and then see whare things might go. For a very long time I have thought that I don't need anybody near me, that I can handle everything myself.